Friday, October 15, 2010

The heartbeat of my child

Well yesterday we finally went to my 1st doctors appointment. We got caught in traffic but the drive there wasn't too bad. We ended up waiting for maybe almost 2 hours which is long but we pretty much had the whole waiting room to ourselves so my son was able to run around and entertain himself - lol - So after the looong wait it was time! While waiting for the doctor in the room my son started whining and screaming but Daddy was there to make him smile. Doctor finally came in and I was so excited! So she started to move the heartbeat scanner thing around my stomach and found the blood flow from me to the baby she continued to look for the heartbeat... I started getting a little worried but she said she can't always find the heartbeat on the first visit so I was expecting to come back in a month and hear it. She kept going and still nothing but then a couple of minutes later we heard a faint noise as she moved the device around it got louder and then, there it was, my son/daughter's heartbeat. So beautiful, so perfect like nothing else in the world existed. I turned to look at my boyfriend and son and just smiled. My son probably won't remember hearing his little sibling's heartbeat but being able to share this moment with him this time round was everything I could of asked for.
I love you all Alan, Leon and my Unborn child 
                               XoXoX
Good Night

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Young Parents

Hi there everyone, I just had some stuff I wanted to let out. I have been signed up to a website called BabyCenter.com since my first pregnancy. It's basically a site made for women or even men who are trying to conceive, are pregnant or who have kids already. I was just looking through some active threads and realized how many young parents there are and how most of them - probably around 95% of these couples breakup. The past week I've seen maybe 3 or 4 threads about how a young mother is now a single young mother. It disturbs me to think that these young couples are having sex unprotected knowing the risks, then getting pregnant (when in most cases they do not or would not have the means to support the child), deciding to keep the child/ren (as in not giving it up for adoption - I am against abortions except in extreme cases) and expect there to be no problems to occur. What I mean by problems is any type of problem that could cause a young couple to want to breakup. In most cases I see that the boys are leaving their pregnant girlfriend or girlfriend and child/ren because there are too many problems (and yes I know that it is not only men who leave that it can be the women too). THERE ARE GOING TO BE PROBLEMS plain and simple especially for younger couples. No matter who you are there are going to be problems in life but It's just sad to think about, knowing that these precious little beings are going to have a torn up heart growing up because they can't have both parents around -  I know what It's like growing up without a father and it DOES tear you up inside. Now I know that not all young parents give up as soon as trouble or problems hit them and I'm also not trying to bash on young parents since I am one - 19 with a 15 month old son and 3 months pregnant with my second - I also understand that even a full grown man or woman may be immature to the point of not taking care of their chil/ren. I guess what I'm trying to say in all this is I wish people would make better choices - especially concerning someone else's life, their own child/ren. Once again hoping for mankind to better themselves
GoodNight

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Introduction

Hi everyone,

Just wanted to say hi and let you all know what I will be talking about in my Blogs. My Blogs will be random, anything to do with something I find Interesting and want to share with you. It could be something I read about or just something on my mind at the time. I will be posting some good sites and Information on pregnancy and parenting but will also have some Blogs about relationships or Information on other subjects like what kind of animals are going extinct and how it affects me, and the world, and how we can help.

So when I do start posting my Blogs I hope you enjoy them! If you do, follow me and If you don't, well... I'm sure there are Blogs out there that will spark your Interest! So Good Night to everyone and Enjoy each day as if It's your last.